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Wednesday, January 04, 2006

e' sporean blogs: The Next Step

ZuLdaniaL Listening to: Fuad n Mira - Bila Rindu

being in love and finding the right one who loves u back the way you should is more than anyone could ask for... when everything else doesnt matter as long as you know that ur the other half is by ur side... isnt it such a nice feeling to have someone who cares about ur well being...

so after being in love and all... whats the next step in line to take?? engagement? or just go ahead with the marriage?

personally, ive got it all figured out if im in that situation... a grand engagement would definitely be out of the question.... i dont find an engagement necessary in the first place... if im ready to settle down.. ill just go ahead with the marriage.. there'll be no doubts bout it...

but yet again if some people insist that at least an engagement be held first... ok.. no prob... but ill make it simple.. between parents to parents... an exchange of rings... like what the malays say.. stakat ada ikatan... well maybe ill invite just my gd friends...

and when the time permits... and situation arises for the need of a wedding.. then... we'll go ahead... a grand one?? i might consider... its once in a lifetime anyway rite??

well 3 of my gal friends, whom i was once very close had found their perfect match...

and they have decided to move a step ahead...

i got an overseas call recently... thats weird.. i answered and to my disbelief.. it was my poly mate who had shifted to Germany...

it was heartening as we were not able to meet up before she left for Germany to work.. and I was held up at work when I was supposed to send her off at the airport... basically we have not met each other for a year plus... and it was really a pleasure getting to tok to her again...

after updating each other bout life... she finally said... "I called you actually to say that im getting married next week..." ... I was dumbfounded... i was happy that my close friend is settling down but at the same time... it just seemed too fast...

so apparently, she's getting married in Germany and would only come back to Singapore in June or July... and hopefully when she comes back.. we'll be able to spare our busy schedule to meet up... coz it really has been a long time...

and if dats not enough for a day... i learnt bout another of my squad mate's engagement on the same day.... i was surfing around and came across my friend's multiply site... and jeng jeng jeng.. gambar pertunangan... members tul.. tak jemput!... well... tak leh salahkan.. we drifted apart... and the whole gang kind off just separates themselves away...

i called up my friends who knew her... sofian(adeq) n sofian(along)... both too were unaware of the news... further questioning ard... none knew bout it.. so she didnt invite any of us.. i wonder why... but what the heck.. MEMBERS AH!!!

a day later.. another squad mate called... ingatkan nak ajak pi clubbing?? but no!!!... she needed my address... she's getting engaged too...

hers is rather unique as i know her boyfriend is a chinese... and its good to hear that the guy is willing to convert into a muslim in order to continue their path in life together....

so they moved on...

2 of the peeps are also planning on moving on in a year or two... ill update on that when the time comes...

as for now.. to the 3 friends, my poly mate and 2 squad mates, best wishes to u all.. Cheers!

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