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well, i guess da friend of yours has to put the families and da relatives talk aside but to think of the child's future. True enuff, its a greater sin killing da innocence but then again, to let her be born shouldering other sins?? wat i meant is her future.. If its a boy, maybe it won't matter too much.. but what if its a gal? Her future?? i applaud dat the bf is willing to be responsible but as i've said, what if its a gal.. Air sembahyang pun batal ngan bapak sendiri..Nak nikah pun susah.. He/She doesnt chose to be born dat way.. Y let the child bear more sins?? Even if the guy wanna wed ur friend.. dari segi ugama still cannot.. (if u know wat i'm talkin about) Ur friend has to come her menses twice then the nikah will be sah... Let us bear our own sins, to let the innocent carry the sins?? Jus think bout that..

Just my 2 cents worth.. i knoe very naggy.. khekhe..

(like u've said before zul, our opinion always differ,, hehe)

By  DeViLiCiOuS, at March 01, 2006 2:04 PM  

seee... it just gets too complicated when we think about it again.. at one point.. we think bout killing the innocence.. then the part bout family and relatives.. and now ur point... letting the child carry the sins... true enough... itll be pretty sad for the child when she grows up wen everything she do will just not work out rite like u said... a point that i didnt look at wen thinking bout it.. and bout wed... well of coz... everyone knows tak sah.. tapi tuk tutup malu... another whole different point of story to look at...

By  Mr Danial Herambleson, at March 01, 2006 5:33 PM  

juz my thots ..a few situations i hd seen n learnt.both situation describes scenarios of both pros n cons of this situation.mmg susah but yg penting they are willing to pikul the tanggunjwb dats wat i think is more impt.berani buat berani tanggung.bkn apa nanti takut menyesal di kemudian hari.cuz in dis case we dun the child to be the victim.susah to decide...

By  Anonymous, at March 02, 2006 4:08 AM  

I guess i know who... but wouldnt it be better if she talk to her bf and get things right first? Keeping is one bit, but taking care of it is another... are they ready to take up the responsibility to be parents? u know well how it is, right? its something that u got to really sit and talk i say. not just wat people think.... it goes more beyond that...

By  Nazri & Aidah, at March 02, 2006 9:30 AM  

i agree with you dopeyy... its a tough choice.. either way.. there will still be pros and cons... its nevewr a simple decision when it comes to the life of an innocense... but of coz... berani buat.. berani tanggung... both parties have to be willing to take and go through together the final decision that they would be taking...

as for naz.. jgn speculate.. it might not be the person that u think.. im not gonna reveal who is it anyway... anyway.. referring to being responsible for it as a parent.. i guess they have no issues about it.. the bf is one who would sacrifice anything for something he believed in.. well they did sat and talk on their own.. as for me... im just playing a part for them by telling them what i feel... who knows like wat afad pointed was not a point that actually we thot about in the first place... in a way.. i would say a selfish thot.. thinking bout our own well-being without thinking about the small one that would be facing the world when he/she grows up...

By  Mr Danial Herambleson, at March 02, 2006 8:14 PM  

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