Friday, October 07, 2005
e' sporean blogs: Tantrums
ZuLdaniaL Listening to: Jay Sean - Stole
Tantrums...
an expression of intense or immediate frustration.... in a very common term... a very bad temper...
everyone goes thru that phase in their life... almost avoidable.. it just comes up as and when the situation arises... be it when u r a toddler, a teenager or even adulthood... everyone shows their tantrums in some way or another...
lets take for example.. a toddler... tantrums are shown by hurling themselves on the floor... kicking around... screaming until they are red in the face...
as for adults... they show their tantrums in another manner... they tend to grab anything and throw it around.. slam on doors.. cause injury to themselves... some may fume and seethe quietly... whereas others might lash out with hurtful words or acts...
but nevertheless... these anger tends to fade with age... BUT it doesnt go away... humans will continue to show their anger or tantrums.. and it all for just one thing.. to get their message across.. that they are unhappy or frustrated over something....
personally... i myself do show my tantrums once in a while whenever i get frustrated... but it really takes a lot to get the worst side of me out.... worst case scenario... i would throw fragile items around... my family had seen that... and they know when that occurs... its best to just let me be by myself...
sometimes its really uncontrolable... when ur emotions began to take over control of ur mind... u cant think straight!... dats one thing for sure... but recently... ive successfully placed my emotions under control... simple... but it works.. taking in a few deep breaths... try it to believe...
again personally... i can tolerate most of people's tantrums... i usually will never take it personal.. coz i know that they never do really mean it most of the time.. its just anger... but yet again... i can never tolerate tantrums when im the one being scolded at or hurled with hurting words.. when the problem isnt concerning me at all!!!
in layman term.... "throwing your tantrums around"
i can be there to listen ur anger out.. but to shout and make me feel that im a part of it all... dats untolerable... those hurting words directed to me is uncalled for... watch it.. coz once its smashed.... it'll never be able to come into one piece perfectly...
[3 deep breaths]
hmphhh... im almost to okay now...
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