The difference between an optimist and a pessimist ??
An optimist laughs to forget and a pessimist forgets to laugh....
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THE DICTIONARY
optimistic
adj
1: expecting the best in this best of all possible worlds; "in an optimistic mood"; "optimistic plans"; "took an optimistic view"
2: expecting the best; "an affirmative outlook"
pessimistic
adj
expecting the worst in this worst of all possible worlds
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THE OVERVIEW
how many a times when we are faced with problems or set backs, we tend to take it out on others... we tend to throw our tantrums... and every little thing that people ard us says.. tends to spark off that anger in us... when in the first place... the people we throw these emotions at are never the people who started it all...
have u ever tried otherwise?? showing that lovely sweet smile of yours to others.. and giving people the impression that you are in a good mood... and dat no problems could get you worked out...
personally, i tried... to a certain extend... its a good feeling when everyone ard you just finds you approachable... but how long can dat smile stay?? too much pretenses could get things worst... but to show otherwise... would do injustice to myself...
im a human myself... im not prefect.. i trip... i fall.. i am clumsy in my own way... i say stuffs at the wrong time sometimes... im just not prefect... and as a human.. nobody is...
so.. i guess my point is... there is no such thing as an optimist or pessimist... as a human.. i guess everyone has each of it... it just depends on the situation whereby each individuals would potray either one of it... so be it u laugh to forget... or u forget to laugh... each individuals has their rights...
and so the table is turned ard to the person receiving it on the other line... i guess how you deal with that situation matters most... coz no human, in their correct state of mind, would hurt another on purpose... well, at least that would be the case for me....